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About
name: crystal; yihui
nick: mummie
school:first toa payoh secondary
birthday: 7 of march 1990
about me
i m kinda flexible when i comes to food
different shades of pUrPle!!!
dislikes
conflicts via disputes
exams stress etc
Friday, June 30, 2006
Wednesday, June 21, 2006
So many things have happen and some make me really heartbroken while some really struck me.....
In a relationship, what is the most important thing?
Is it TRUST?
LOVE?
PASSION?
UNDERSTANDING?
KNOWING HOW TO CHERISH SOMEONE?
ABILITY TO ACCEPT HIS/HER FLAWS OR ACCEPT WHO THEY ARE AND NOT CHANGING THEM?
Everyone have they very personal answer to this question.....
Particularly, my answer is understanding and the ability to cherish and treasure someone…
All of them are vital role in maintaining a long and lasting relationship....
But they must come from both sides.... both parties must play a part...
If it is only one party doing the job well, he or she will be worn one and eventually leaving the relationship....
Yes yes yes.... you might think he cherishing u can be seen by waiting for u.....
But let me tell u… for some people, they look for a partner isnt because he or she loves that particular person but because he or she doesn’t want to be alone....
I particularly feel tat HE has presented himself in this way...
Cherishing someone is not but waiting for someone...
It is by spending quality time on loving, pampering her and making her happy.....
NOT by screaming or shouting her for getting lost when you are the one that gave her the wrong address............
IT IS NOT DONE BY reprimanding or rather throwing temper in order to stop her from doing the things she like when you find it stupid or a waste of money even when she is not even using your money.......
IT IS NOT SHOWN through continuous heated up quarrels..........
NOT REVEALED through countless repeated broken promise and mistakes.............
U DO NOT USE VULGARITIES TO REPRIMAND
U DO NOT PERFORM SUCH ACTS EVEN IN A FIT OF ANGER..............
this are the basics.....................
Cherishing is shown through acceptance, understanding and mutual respect............
Loving someone doesn’t mean that you KNOW how to cherish someone............
I have already said my peace.............
If you dont understand, then dont...........
People out there..............if you feel that I am in the wrong then be it...........
You never experience the feeling of loving someone so much but he in return perform the above actions................
You will never know how your love for someone had been reduced or rather away through his heartless language.........
You never understand how tough it was to go against all odd even being bullied or outcaste from the crowd just to be with that particular person and yet he doesnt cherish you...........
I guess, I am not so strong to go on.............
To someone out there.........
I have already done what I could to salvage the relationship but to no avail...........
If you or your friends want to hate me, be it....... there is nothing much I have to say or do further...........
Friday, June 02, 2006
past
May 2005
June 2005
July 2005
August 2005
September 2005
October 2005
November 2005
January 2006
February 2006
March 2006
April 2006
June 2006
July 2006
December 2006
January 2007
links
denise
4e1
xiao wei
Mrs tan
pat
eileen aka v3
ejun ying
xavier
ah loy
watson
shamine
Felice aka v6
Jodie
timolty
may ee
shi hui
nilah
kenneth
mingyeo
liling
kah mun
lynnie
cels
credits
